Hello! In today’s post, I thought I’d talk about goals. I’m on a roll with writing about inspirational tips I’d like to share with you, so I’m continuing the trend today! 😂💕
I realized recently how important it is to identify my goals and separate them from all the possible goals one can reach for! Because if I’m not careful, I’ll be running around feeling super dissatisfied with my life since I’m not meeting every goal, every day.
In this post, I’d love to help you along in identifying your true goals. I’m working on doing the same with mine and it’s been incredible!
There are some different ways you can read+respond to this post. You can bookmark it to reference later, or use some of the prompts and questions and answer them in your journal or a blog post, or share your answers in the comments! It’s totally up to you, and I invite you to do whichever one/s suit you. I’d be so happy to help you with goal-setting and reaching! 🌟✨
Let’s figure out this goal thing together! 😊💞
🌸 your goal vs. a goal 🌸
So, how do you know if a goal is the right one to have?
I think goals should always be this awesome, motivating force that inspires you to create a beautiful future and productive today! When goals aren’t having that effect, you’ll be very distracted from the progress you want to be making.
There have been so many goals that I’ve carried around with me over time, then eventually gotten rid of. It felt so great to figure out if I really wanted to reach those milestones, or if I’d changed my mind!
Here are some questions you can ask yourself that have personally helped me to discover my true goals!:
- Is this goal something I used to want, but don’t anymore/right now?
- Is it something another person influenced me to pursue, but it’s not what I want for my life?
- Is this goal motivating me or burdening me?
By answering those questions, they’ll help you along in figuring out which ones you want to focus on!
💫 now goals vs. later goals 💫
Why did I think of the candy
There are goals I reach every day and every week that make me really excited! Then there are goals I haven’t reached yet, which makes me sad, but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to pursue them. They just haven’t happened yet!
So figure out which goals you’re tackling right now, then sort out the ones that you’ll pursue when you can. Free yourself of the guilt of feeling like you should have done something when you either literally couldn’t, or you’re just not interested at this time. Allow yourself to enjoy what you are doing today! 💕
🌹 different types of goals 🌹
Did you know there are two types of goals in the world? 🌎
Okay, I’m kidding. 😂 … kind of.
Hear me out: there are required goals and optional goals!
Prioritize the things you have to do, then have fun orchestrating the optional stuff.
Here are various types of goals! This can help you sort all your ideas:
- health/fitness goals
- academic goals
- career goals
- creative goals
- relationship goals
- mental health goals
- self-improvement goals
- blogging goals (yup you knew I was gonna include that)
- writing goals
- life goals
Of course goal lists can be as general or specific as you want – it’s totally your call!
Your goals should excite you and motivate you. If they’re weighing you down and making you loathe how you spend your time, ask yourself if they’re really goals you want to have.
🌵 current goals vs. retired goals 🌵
And no, I’m not talking about goals going golfing
Have you ever set a big goal for yourself that you pursue for a while, then realize it’s not your thing anymore? That’s okay. You can change your mind! As long as you haven’t made financial commitments or have obligations, adjust your priorities so you can pursue what you love today.
I’ve set goals that sounded like great long-term goals. But then as I chased after them, I lost interest. Turns out, they were awesome short-term goals that didn’t excite me for as long as I thought they would.
Once I let go of how I’d pictured things turning out and accepted reality, I freed myself to be able to enjoy what I was interested in doing at that point!
✏️ more journaling prompts ✏️
Here are more questions you can answer as you sort through your goals!
- Which goal/s of mine are required?
- Which one/s are so important that I’m making them a requirement?
- Which goals am I the most excited about?
- Which goals make me feel guilty?
- Which goals would I pursue today, but I need to figure out where to start?
- Which ones do I want to pursue eventually?
Thank you soooo much for reading! I feel SO inspired after writing this, you have no idea 😍💖